Often times we give so much of ourselves to other people that we forget our own needs that need to be met. We often neglect ourselves and forget to show ourselves a little TLC. It is very important that we learn to date ourselves. If you are single or in a relationship, take some time to yourself. Not only is dating yourself SEXY AF, it allows you to see WHO you are and what will fit you. Time alone enhances your wellbeing, makes you whole and decreases your chances of falling for the next F-boy that comes your way. It is impossible for us to give others something that we cannot give ourselves. We cannot fully give ourselves to another person if we aren’t whole (you will constantly settle for someone to complete you). we have to understand the type of partner that we can be. we have to get to know ourselves, our wants, likes and dislikes. Ladies, it is time that we get back to properly loving ourselves.
I Have been single for a year and recently decided to get back to loving myself. I’ve decided to dedicate one day of the week to my Date Days, i settled on sunday( my son is normally with his dad). I am the type of person who will cancel a whole vacation if no one can go with me. i’ve bailed out of things that i really wanted to do because none of my friends wanted to join in. this is all because of my fear of being alone.For me this challenge was something that i really needed to do in order to feel free. it has been really liberating and now i find myself praying that my friends bail so that i can have some alone time lol. Below i have listed a couple Solo-Date ideas that helped boost my confidence and was overall a great time.
Make dinner reservations for one.
There’s just something sexy about putting on that little black dress, getting dolled up and catching a uber ( for aesthetics of course) to a dim lit restaurant or lounge and having a nice glass of wine and dinner. Dating and getting to know yourself. Kind of gives me sex and the city vibes. I feel mysterious, like i have a secret that nobody knows. I feel like pretty woman without the prostitution lol.
Solo Movie Date.
Go to see that late night chick flick or action film that you always wanted to see. Almost every movie theater these days have a bar and cafe. my favorite is https://cinebistro.com/, the experience is out of this world.
Go to a Museum.
Get Lost in the art, go at your own pace.
Bring a blanket, your favorite snacks and a good book. Breath in the fresh air and soak in the beauty of nature.
Yes, it can be pricey but you deserve. Nothing like a nice massage and facial after a stressful week.
Boudoir photo shoot.
If you have a spouse this would be the perfect gift. If not, nothing reminds you more of how sexy you are.
A great self confidence booster.
“Take a chance to discover yourself. You may learn to love who you find “
Comment your Solo Dating experience. Also if you guys have any solo date ideas that i haven’t included comment them below. Looking forward to hearing from you guys.
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